Friday, October 3, 2008

Adoption


Pictured are some of the brochures available with adoption information.

Adoption for some brings good memories and for others it brings bad memories. Today adoption is handled much differently than in the past. It is a unique experience for each individual birth parent and adoptive family.

There are more choices available along with help to make those choices. Bethany Christian Service is one place that offers that kind of help. We recently learned that they have a new office in Redding.

Bethany Christian Services is based in Grand Rapids, Michigan with locations throughout our nation. Their services are available to birth parents before, during and after delivery and placement. The counseling is free of charge and free from pressure.

Counselors help birth parents explore the options available to them. The move today is toward openness for those who choose adoption. This is where the birth parent and adoptive family stay in contact in some form. It could be from letters and pictures to direct contact either by telephone, e-mail or letter. It could also involve face to face visits.

The birth parents can have the joy of knowing they chose a quality life for their child. They will be able to choose the adoptive family. Also they can also know their child is growing and developing as they continue some form of contact.

The counselors are there to answer all questions as the birth parents explore what is right for them. They help them make a plan they can live with long term. The agency also handles all the legal details and there is no cost to the birth parents.

Birth parents can also meet with others who have chosen adoption for their child. They can ask questions and listen to their experiences. Families that have adopted a child are also available for them to meet with and to answer questions about how they see the process.

If the birth mother is in need of housing during pregnancy there is a home for them to live at. There is one of these homes located in Northern California.

The services provided there are all free and include: counseling, childbirth classes and labor support, referrals for community and education programs, arrangements for prenatal care, assistance in obtaining Medi-Cal coverage, clothing and personal hygiene products, bus passes or transportation assistance.

They can accommodate up to six residents at a time. There is a laundry room and supplies are provided. A telephone is available for local calls. Phone cards are required for long distance calls. They also serve healthy and nutritious foods.

Spiritual needs are also addressed. The ministry is operated and funded by local churches and individuals. Residents and staff attend weekly worship services. If a resident is of a different faith, she is welcome to attend a service of her choice. An in-home Bible study is also available.

Always be informed and make a choice that can be lived with long term.

Brochures that help answer question for birth parents are available at Care Net Pregnancy Center, 127 Main Street, Red Bluff, CA. Their phone number is 530-528-8112. Walk-ins are welcome for free pregnancy tests as well as information on all options available to pregnant women. Appointments are also available.

The Bethany Christian Services local office is at 966 Maraglia Street, Redding, CA. Their phone number is 530-224-7700. Appointments usually can be arranged as early as the day a client calls or the following day at the latest.

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